If
you are in a relationship that you think is heading for a break up, what do you
want to do? If your goal is to stay with your partner then you need to work on
stopping the break up from happening before things get out of hand. A little
prevention now can save a lot of heart break latter on. You will prevent the
damaging arguments and the time having to recover if the break up happens. So
how do you prevent a break up from happening?
One
big problem men and women must overcome is communication. For example when a
woman says something to a man it may be heard or interpreted different from
what she intended. This miscommunication can cause problems in a relationship
that really do not exist. The man not correctly picking up what was said can
cause a communication problem that can be difficult to overcome if it happens
on a regular basis. As you can see, having the ability to communicate with your
partner is very important.
Also
learning to understand how you can express your feelings in comparison to how
your partner can express theirs can help save the two of you from
misunderstandings, fighting, and disagreements. Think of all the headaches that
could be spared with a little understanding. Not understanding what your
partner meant when they said something to you can lead to some problems.
When
someone has trouble understanding the communication from someone like their
partner it can be difficult at times to accept love from them. It can drive a
wedge between you while creating feelings of confusion and inadequacy to the
point you feel alienated.
If
you can accept your partners love in the manner they are able to express it
while at the same time being able to show them love in a way they can accept
it, that would be an important skill to have. This skill could be called lone
language.
Having
this skill is great but it does take some time getting proficient at to be
effective. If you have time to work on this to save your relationship before a
break up happens put it to work for you. If you are in a bind and need a quick
fix this may not help so seek out other methods to save your relationship but
do not forget this skill for the future.