How to Save Ex Girlfriend From an Abusive Relationship

Do you have an ex girlfriend that is trapped in an abusive situation? Regardless of why the two of you broke up it is important she gets out of her situation. If you still have feelings for her it can be heartbreaking knowing she is with the wrong person that has been mentally or physically abusing her.

If possible you need to help her out of this situation. It does not matter whether your goal is to get back together with her or not, she does not deserve this treatment. Which is more important to you, getting your ex back or just rescuing her from her predicament? Knowing you have her best interests in mind will help you make the right decision.

You if decide you must help her make sure you understand the motivations behind your decision. You may have your own agenda behind this but make sure it's for the right reasons. You could come across as a hero if you do rescue her from an abusive situation that could have been life threatening for her.

Unfortunately you might find she does not want to be helped or rescued. Many times a woman that is in an abusive relationship will return to the one that is abusing her. You must let her know that she can be safe with you and she does not need to go back to her bad situation.

If you did not do a good job as a boyfriend the first time around you must convey to her that you have changed for the better. If she knows that she can truly depend on you, your chance of helping her improve.

An abusive person will put someone down as if they deserve to be abused. Show her she deserves much better in her life by showing how much you care. If she is suffering from low self esteem help her feel better about herself by making her feel special. If you can get her to understand she can leave this person she my respond to you.

Be very careful you do not make her situation worse. If your ex's boyfriend catches on someone is trying to help her it could get dangerous for both you and your ex girlfriend. Someone that is a controlling person can get very jealous so remember to be aware of your ex's safety.

If your attempt to help your ex is successful you could very well get her back. Hopefully she can realize that the two of you were really meant to be together and everything works out for the better.