When you go through a relationship break up, it’s important that you take a moment and review what just happened. You are sure to feel hurt and angry or you may just be in a state of emotional shock. You can be sure that you not in a state of mind for clearly thinking about how you can get back your loved one.
When that emotional connection has just been broken, you might feel an overwhelming desire to go to your ex and beg them to come back to you. Begging and pleading will not work, it will only push them further away from you. Don’t look desperate in your attempt at trying to talk them to come back.
If you feel like you don’t care about your own dignity as long as you can convince you’re ex boyfriend or ex girl friend to come back, it’s not going to work out the way you hope. You might feel like you have true love for your ex; true love would not be desperate or begging to get back together.
Give your ex time to think about what is happening too. They also may be feeling confused and need some time to see what’s going on just like yourself. You will only be building up more bitterness or anger if you are trying to push them into getting back together with you.
You should be doing some reading to find out what the best methods are that will help you be successful at re-uniting with your ex. There is a lot of information out there that you can check out that would benefit you. One of the more proven sources is “The Magic of Making Up” by T.W. Jackson.
