You have broken up with your boyfriend and you have been trying to get back together with him with no luck at all. Do you feel that whatever you try he just backs off more from you? There are some do's and do not's of trying to get an ex boyfriend back that you need to follow so you attract him instead of pushing him away.
It's obvious you want to get your ex boyfriend back, hopefully for the right reasons. If you are being too pushy or emotional this could be the first reason he is not responding to you. If this is the case it would be normal for him to resist you because there is more than likely still some anger from the breakup and you are pushing him. He may feel like he needs some time on his own to get his thoughts together.
If you have been calling him, sending emails and etc. you should stop. If you truly want to succeed in getting back with your ex doing these things is not helping you at all. Also do not try to make him fell sorry or feel guilt over you; this will also cause negative feedback from him.
If you where to break off all contact with your ex for a while, it would put him into a state of mind wondering what you are up to. His curiosity would be working overtime thinking about you and he would most likely be thinking of you the way he did before the break up. Your ex boyfriend would now be missing you.
During this time focus on yourself. Do things that you enjoy to take your mind off the situation and wait. Chances are he will be trying to contact you, now you would have control of the situation and if you play it smart the two of you should be back together.
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