If you are going to try to get your boyfriend or girlfriend back after they left you, first think about why they left you in the first place. Depending on the reason for the break up would you decide how to go about getting your ex back, there are proven methods that you can use to get them back and if you follow them correctly you may be successful.
If it was over some stupid argument or some misunderstanding, that would be the easiest to deal with. If it was an on going issue that one of you continually brought up and caused a fight over, that would be a little more difficult unless the offender could completely let the issue go. If one or the other was cheating or left for another partner, that would be the most difficult but it would still be possible to get your ex back.
Regardless of the above scenarios, you must not use vengeful methods on your ex or you will never get them back. If you want to get even and then move on with your life, vengeance is the way to go but it will never get your ex back. It would be best to let things cool down for a few weeks so both of you can think about what happened and clear your heads. By then you should be able to think clearly and proceed to get your ex back.
When you start to make contact with your ex take it easy at first, if they do not answer the phone do not keep calling them all day, wait a few days and try again. Be nice and pleasant with your ex when you do talk to them and don't talk about things that would bring up bad memories of your past relationship. These are a few things you can do to get started in the pursuit of your ex. If you think it's worth a try do it.
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