If you find out that your girlfriend has dumped you for another guy it can be pretty painful. You have to wonder what made her do it and you have the right to know. But you need to find the answer the right way, do not confront her or her new boyfriend with an attitude because all you will accomplish is more anger and a lost chance to get her back.
Take a look at yourself first to see if it is something you did or did not do. Did you miss a sign from her that there was a problem with you? Think back and be honest with yourself and try top discover something. If you come up with nothing then could it be her?
If the two of you had a good relationship and she really cared about you, she should have been confronting you nicely about anything that was bothering her. She should have been trying to fix a problem early on before it got out of hand when it would be easiest to fix. If she never said anything to you then look at what is going on in her life.
Could she be career minded and not ready for a commitment yet? Have you put any pressure on her to make more of a relationship commitment with you and maybe scared her off? This kind of thing can happen, there is no problem with you personally, she may just want to dedicate herself more to her career now.
Whatever the issue is, if you want to get her back you need to overcome it. Just give her a few weeks with the other guy and who knows, they may split up and she comes back to you on her own. Otherwise you must overcome any issue she may have but do not pressure her to come back, let it happen naturally.
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