There
was once a series of commercials by one of the mobile phone companies that was
about what they called “really?” moments. The idea of these commercials was
that their newest phone could get you in and out then back to your life faster
than the other phones available at the time. A great point was made by these
commercials in that we as humans seem to have a difficult time getting the
attention of others.
Even
in close and loving relationships it can be difficult to get your girlfriends
attention. Below you will find four tips that will help you get her undivided
attention if you make use of them correctly.
1. Get
Your Girlfriends Attention by Getting Her Away from the Crowd
Try
to get your girlfriend away from any group of people that may always seem to be
around. It can be difficult to get through to her with all of the distractions
going on around her. Plan a weekend away for just the two of you so you can
have some quiet time together. The time will allow the two of you reconnect
with each other without having to deal with outside influences of friends or
family.
2. Plan
an Electronic Free Weekend to Get Your Girlfriends Attention
Plan
on a non electronic weekend to get your girlfriends attention by not using the
computer, cell phone, game system or any other electronic device that could
interfere with you and you girlfriend. Doing this will force the two of you to
rely on each other to start communicating face to face.
This
will help increase your companionship and attention spans. Take advantage of
this time to reconnect in a way that may have been lost over time. Just a
couple days of this could make a big difference in making an improvement in
your relationship.
3. Get
Your Girlfriends Attention by Send her Flowers - For No Reason
If
you want to get her attention send her some flowers. This will get her
curiosity going wondering what is going on. She will be trying to figure out if
you are apologizing for something or if something has happened. Until she finds
out the answer the curiosity will be killing her.
4. Get
Your Girlfriends Attention by Cleaning the House
Have
you ever helped your girl clean the house? How do you think she would react if
she found you cleaning when it is not something you normally do? Again the
curiosity will get the best of her trying to figure out what is going on.
If
she is pretty much on top of the house cleaning maybe there is something else
you can do for her. She may have been on you about completing some chore or
task, now would be a good time to get it done. Getting something done and out
of the way should make an impression on her whether it’s big or small
You
do not have to make a big deal to get your girlfriends attention. Even the
smallest of things done every so often can make a difference in your
relationship especially with getting her undivided attention.